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Self-Help Programs For Engaged Couples

Congratulations on your engagement! By now you have probably found out how much goes into preparing for the wedding of your dreams. You will find the same is true if you want to achieve the marriage of your dreams. Neither one just happens on their own. They both take time and effort, but a wonderful wedding and a happy marriage are worth working for.

We have pulled together a list of self-help resources to help you achieve your dream wedding and more importantly your dream marriage.

Researchers have found if you gain some basic relationship skills and knowledge before you get married those skills can significantly help you achieve your dream of a happy, healthy lifelong marriage. So if you want to make your marriage dream become a reality we suggest a proactive marriage preparation program to help you gain these basic relationship skills and knowledge.

Don't forget to continually gain additional relationship skills and knowledge after you get married. What would have happened to Tiger Woods if after a few basic lessons from his dad he decided he didn't need to learn anything else? Nurturing the marriage of your dreams is a lot like your golf game. If you ever stop improving and fine tuning your marriage, then it will become less and less satisfying over time.

We highly recommend you become an informed consumer before you purchase or use one of these self-help programs. Possible questions you might ask include:

1. What is your experience and training that you used to develop this program?

2. Is this program based on research and can you supply me with the references for the research articles it is based on?

3. What is the total cost for using your program?

4. What are the specific relationship skills and knowledge taught in this program?

If you have a self-help program for engaged couples and would like it to be added to this list please send us an email.

The table below lists some of the self-help programs available to help Engaged Couples gain basic relationship skills and knowledge that can help them form and sustain a healthy marriage.



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Healthy Marriage Weight Loss Program This online program has been designed to help people attain and maintain a healthy weight, healthy marriage and a healthy self. Click here to learn more about this program
Healthy Relationship Dating Program Over 200 ideas of fun dates you can go on and strengthen your relationship at the same time. Click here to visit the Healthy Dating Program

No cost.
Keys to Unlocking the Door to a Healthy and Happy Marriage This pamphlet series teaches basic relationship skills and knowledge that can help a couple form and sustain a healthy marriage. Click here to read and print the pamphlets

No cost.
Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts Video Kit Dr. Les and Leslie Parrott show young couples the skills they need to make the transition from "single" to "married" smooth and enjoyable. Designed for couples and small groups, the Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts curriculum includes the following:

* Two videos with eight half-hour sessions by the Parrotts
* Separate men's and women's workbooks full of exercises and self-tests to help couples apply what they learn
* A leader's guide that shows small-group leaders how to successfully conduct the Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts program
* A hardcover copy of the book, Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts
* A copy of the Marriage Mentor Manual, a guide to helping young couples establish mentoring relationships with experienced couples after the wedding.
To order this Video Workshop for $150 call 866-818-5530
Newlywed Kit By Gary Smalley This Newlywed Kit contains 6 resources to get them started off on the right road to a successful marriage for a lifetime. These resources include:

If Only He Knew - Gary gives ten simple steps to strengthen any relationship with a woman and to understand their emotions.

For Better or Best - Every woman needs to know the four great needs of a man as well as what motivates a man to be more intimate in relationships.

Honor VHS Tape teaches basic skills to help you have a happy marriage.

Gaining Mutually Fulfilling Sexually Intimacy VHS Tape - In this session, Gary shows the 4 vital ways to enrich and nourish a mutually satisfying sexual relationship.

Anger Audio CD - Gary teaches the five things that will keep your anger emotion in check.

Personality Profile for Couples This professional personality profile deciphers couples unique personalities, highlighting their strengths and blind spots.
To order this Newlywed Kit for $99.95 call 866-818-5530
The Couples Workshop Series In this DVD, designed to fit your busy lives, learn how you and your partner can better cope with life''s stresses and support one another. With guided instruction and a series of practical exercises, you''ll enjoy sharing this workshop with each other. Learn how to renew intimacy, enhance respect, and strengthen your love, commitment and friendship. Gain lasting tools to communicate and resolve conflicts with calm and care. This user-friendly DVD workshop includes 4 DVDs and a manual, complete with workshop exercises. All materials and presentations are based on John Gottman''s 30 years of research with couples. To order this DVD or VHS workshop for $200 call 866-818-5530
Saying "I Do": Consider the Possibilities This free online marriage education program has been designed by researchers at Utah State University to help you learn the skills and knowledge that can help you form and sustain a healthy marriage.  To enroll in this free online course click here and you will be redirected to their login page. 

Type in the ID:marriageprep
and your Password is: guest
10 Great Dates Video Series 10 Great Dates Video Series helps spark romance with memory-making evenings built on key, marriage-enriching themes. Enjoy your dates alone as a couple or use this resource to initiate an ongoing marriage enrichment program for your church or group. To order this video series for $99.95 call 866-818-5530
His Needs Her Needs: Habits for a Lifetime of Passion In this 12 lesson course Dr. Harley leads you step by step through the process of becoming irresistible to each other. The package includes: Six compact disks recorded by Dr. Harley, one copy of His Needs, Her Needs (Hardcover), Lesson Assignments manual, and his 5 Steps to Romantic Love workbook. To order this 12 lesson course for $130 call 866-818-5530
Relationships Video Curriculum   Dr. Les and Leslie Parrot teach couples how to have a successful relationship by living principles taught in the Bible. To order this video workshop for $99.95 call 866-818-5530
The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work In this video Dr. Gottman presents his research-based seven principles that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward in their approach, yet profound in their effect, these principles teach partners new and startling strategies for making their marriage work. Based on Dr. Gottman''s New York Times best selling book, The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work. To order this video workshop for $29.95 call 866-818-5530
Love Busters: Overcoming Habits That Destroy Passion. In this 12 lesson course, Dr. Harley helps you get what you need from your spouse and give what your spouse needs from you. It begins by eliminating Love Busters.

Audio Package: Six compact disks recorded by Dr. Harley,
one copy of Love Busters (Hardcover), Lesson Assignments manual, and the workbook, 5 Steps to Romantic Love.
To order this 12 lesson course for $130 call 866-818-5530
The Marriage Breakthrough® Interactive Seminar  This package contains two DVDs which capture the full content of Michele Weiner-Davis's day-long live marriage enrichment/divorce prevention seminar for couples and a 12 page booklet containing seminar outline and exercises that you and your spouse can complete to fully participate in the seminar. To order this interactive DVD seminar for $149.95 call 866-818-5530
Fighting for Your Marriage Video Workshop This video guided workshop for couples helps you learn and apply the PREP skills and principles to help your relationship stay healthy.

Couples Workbook Video One: Ground Rules for Fighting and Loving

Couples Workbook Video Two: Using the Speaker-Listener Technique to Manage Conflicts

Couples Workbook Video Three: Problem Solving Made Easy

In addition to the three videos this package also includes to participants workbooks.
To order this workshop series for $130 call 866-818-5530
Getting Unstuck Video Workshop Working with real couples, Michele Weiner-Davis teaches four down-to-earth relationship skills illustrates a series of exercises couples can perform at home to begin to effect relationship change right away. You’ll learn to stop pushing your partner’s buttons in negative ways—and to start pushing them in positive ways…to get better at setting positive, action-oriented, attainable goals…and to think more creatively about change.   To order this video for $49.95 call 866-818-5530
DNA of Relationships DVD Series with Gary and Michael Smalley Watching this new 6 hour DVD seminar you'll learn:
How to eliminate the number one cause of relational conflict
1.Four ways to create a safe place for love
2.Four ways you can control all of your own emotions and greatly lower your stress level
3.Three key choices that bring you complete happiness in life 4. The most powerful communication method on earth 5. How God has designed you for love
6. Why the people using these principles found a 73% increase in their relational satisfaction
To order this DVD seminar for $99.95 call 866-818-5530

Wisdom Series
 This 6 CD audio workshop is taught by Lori Gordon, the founder of the PAIRS program. In it she teaches the skills and knowledge that have helped thousands of couples who have gone through the PAIRS program build and sustain healthy marriages. To order this CD workshop for $79.95 call 866-818-5530
Romance on a Shoestring Game Romance on a Shoestring begins as a game you play once a week, but it can last
a lifetime.

A shelf of self-help books, psychological wisdom and 120 romantic ideas--all
wrapped up in a fun and playful game.
To order this game for $49.95 call 866-818-5530
Sex & Romance in the Biblical Marriage This 6 hour video workshop, taught by Jim Sheridan, covers basic skills and information about sex and romance from a biblical perspective To order this video workshop for $150 call 866-818-5530

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